• Carnelian@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    You lose some agency over the situation from being discovered, compared to retaining the ability to reveal it whenever you please

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      7 days ago

      That makes sense I guess, I’m a submissive bottom who wants absolutely no agency over any situation so I wouldn’t have thought of that.