“They’re watching themselves from the outside, rather than what dancers should be doing, which is being themselves from the inside.”

Increasingly, the best parties are those where phones are absent.

The cameras 99% of adults carry in their pockets every day, and the powerful surveillance software those cameras connect to, make it easy for anyone to rip any moment – even our most intimate, silly, goofy, terrible, embarrassing, or happy moments – and put it online for all to see, stripped of its original context.