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Yaaay sister, that sounds great!! So happy for you :>

Keep us posted how it goes with your friends!

Does your friend group already contain LGBTQIA+ members?

I usually make a version of myself that I would be happy to exist as in the world the game is set in.

Cyberpunk 2077 and Baldurs Gate 3 are my absolute gold standards for this.

And as far as it has changed… instead of just picking “girl” in the before times, I spend a significant time to get it right haha

Yes, please more “I didn’t know I wanted to be a woman growing up, I was missing the words to formulate this idea” representation! I felt sooo alone and doubted myself for so long because of that.

but I guess he has never seen a “man” wear a skirt and leggings.

And he still hasn’t :3

thinly fleshed

heh

…what?

China moment

I hear you and remember feeling the same! However I have come to find that most healthcare professionals are clueless when it comes to trans healthcare.

My endo initially wanted me to take 100-times the dosage that is recommended!! Only thing that saved me from that was knowing already how much I needed to take.

Honestly just go DIY for now and lie to the psychiatrist. We are unfortunately living in a transphobic af world. You won’t really have a choice in the matter of studying up on stuff like dosage yourself anyways.

Can really recommend transfemscience.org for that.

Edit: just be aware that an endocrinologist will probably do some blood work before they give you official hrt and some might not like you having gone the diy route.

Also there might be an issue with the Krankenkasse (assuming you are in germany) wanting proof that you aren’t intersex if you later wanna get srs. My endo sent my initial blood works as proof but there should be other ways.

I’m pretty sure I know the second one (J.B.?) and I got my hrt indication from him after the first session. Group therapy is online too so it doesn’t really matter where OP lives.

Einst stritten sich Nordwind und Sonne, wer von ihnen beiden wohl der Stärkere wäre, als ein Wanderer, der in einen warmen Mantel gehüllt war, des Weges daherkam.

(German text that is often used for the same purpose :3)

Thanks. :) It’s just anecdotal but this is what I have heard again and again.

Ad how is your boobage, if you don’t mind me asking? Oh and in combination with that: were you younger than 30, when you started?

Congrats, sis! :)

Any particular reason you decided for M&S instead of e.g. Lubos?

There isn’t a whole lot of research but there is some:

https://transfemscience.org/articles/ (scroll down to prog)

I have decided against taking prog for now. Have been on E for ~18months.

Notice how the ragebait, communication destroying comments and got’chas are coming from a handful of users in this thread (Cowbee, Riverside, etc.) Ask yourself why they would want to separate the left and who benefits from that.

Edit: ah and like clockwork, the “I now want to communicate reasonably” spiel. Not falling for that one.

Wow seems like all the bad actors got caught by this.

Notice how the criticisms are based on a fundamental lie: that feddit.org is a zionist instance. Without that lie all of the agitators “arguments” crumble to the sad leftist-dividing dust that they are.

Calling for death to nations (and their civilians) is a call for genocide. I hope non-extremists can see that.

Also, as a tip: don’t answer the trolls and agitators. Leave them hanging, screaming into the wind.

You can come to feddit.org, we have mostly normal people instead of armchair internet warriors lol

Especially since the .ml-ers are mostly Putin bootlickers and authoritarian fans. I hope real anarchists can see that.

Sis just know that you aren’t alone. I thought I didn’t have bottom dysphoria… until it hit me.

It sucks an it’s unfair. But at least you aren’t alone <3