I had that thought in my head for a long time, which postponed my transition at least another year or two.
Turns out I was completely wrong. Not only do I like myself in the mirror now waaay more than before I even have people that… desire me?? That is such a weird and novel feeling.
Woah! Where can I get one of those?
Awww I remember my first injection. Good job cow friend! :3
Lots of trans people are also kinky (in my experience UwU). And amongst those there are a lot more submissive people than dominant ones.
Only way I know how involves (at least) two products, something called a peach corrector (which should be the opposite color of your beard shadow, check online for color wheels then get a corrector that’s color most closely matches the one opposite from the color of your beard shadow). The second product would be a foundation ( I had liquid one) that has a strong cover effect.
Apply the corrector in the direction of the hair growth, not against it. Blend out well, then apply the foundation. If you find foundation that super closely matches your skin tone you might be able to get away with just applying it to the places where you used the corrector but more likely you need to use it on your whole face.
Which brings us to the “at least” part of my answer. If you use foundation on your whole face, you could look a little bit too…hmm uniform? Normally I would correct that with a bit of rouge on top of my cheekbones (blend that out as well a bit) and a little bit of conturing at the edge of my face as well as on my nose.
Hope this helps :) for makeup I can really recommend checking out a ton of youtube videos until you find someone who’s style of makeup and teaching you like and just trying to copy that. You will soon find different little ways of make it your own. Good luck sister, you got this! :3
Here is an example of what can be done with this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkgV_-nJOuE
enjoy :3
I have a friend like the POV person and I will love her forever <3
Hey I’m sure you mean well but if someone says “I really need A in my life to be happy” then telling them “A isn’t that great. Don’t worry about it.” isn’t really helpful.
Good way to deal with it is to explain it’s not true.
Nope. By the time you are done refuting their bullshit they will have spouted ten more lies. The best thing to do is deplatforming.
The_donald started as parody too.
Again, not transitioning is also a choice, a choice informed by ideology and forced upon the child. Anti-scientific bullshit.
Also, there are just as many trans people in your country as anywhere else. They are probably oppressed enough to not come out the closet.
Aren’t people who are NOT medically gender dysphoric able to receive HRT nowadays
In civilised countries, yes. And that is a good thing. Not having dysphoria does not mean that someone is not trans and this gatekeeping is a huge part of the problem,
teens can start transitioning just because it’s cool.
This literally doesn’t happen and is just fear mongering. Also it’s presenting transitioning as the only choice. Guess what, not transitioning and going through puberty with the hormones that your body produces is also a choice.
Interesting that comments like yours creep up in a time where the Trumptard propaganda machine tries to vilify trans people.
Oh you aren’t talking about the instance this post is about?
Hate is not an opinion :)
transgenderism
Lmao that was a quick mask-off
Lmao @ all these day old accounts like yours trying to push a normalcy narrative for maggats
We definitely need more open spaces for discussion on the internet.
Not with fascists.
Hey there =)
It’s nice that you may have found yourself! Despite all the anti-trans programming that you have probably endured in your life (I am in my 30s as well and have transitioned for only a year now, so I might now a bit about it too) you have decided to go the first step towards finding out who you are: Questioning the status quo and the erroneous null-hypothesis, that everybody is cis.
It took me years to accept that I am in fact trans femme and even when I started with HRT, I wasn’t entirely sure until I felt the changes, both mentally and physically.
How do I find out for sure?
Well, do you want to be a girl? Then click here: https://turnmeintoagirl.com/ It’s that easy!
Also, I can really recommend Doc Impossible’s blog. A couple of choice entries: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/how-to-figure-out-if-youre-trans
https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/part-one-a-webcomic
Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I’m not attracted to men?
Absolutely you are.
Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life?
This one is tricky. I thought it would ruin my life and I thought that people would hate me and that randos on the street would threaten me and… nothing of the sort has happened. Turns out most people are quite normal in the real world in that they do not turn into raging transphobes when they have an actual trans person in their lives. Most people on the street won’t even care. It does of course matter where exactly you live. Trust your instincts to keep you safe. Moving to a more progressive area might be necessary.
I’m jealous of the youth, being old sucks.
I had these exact thoughts friend. Turns out, I was just afraid of being ugly, because I am old. Which is of course a heavy heap of internalized misogyny (aka. women can’t be >30 and be pretty). Took me a while to clean my head of such non-sense and now I think I am quite attractive. For the first time in my life mind you.
Now I have a question for you!
What do you want us to call you? Do you have a name in mind? What do you think would feel good? =)
EDIT: Be warned, the link still makes me cry it turns out haha
EDIT2: Oh, also watch the movie “I saw the TV glow” and see how that one makes you feel :3 Be warned tho. Very emotional.
Urghh ain’t that the truth.