In what way it obvious? I’ve seen so many people make similar “jokes” just to spread their hateful rhetoric.

If you want to make a joke like this, you should really use a sarcasm tag or similar indicators that they’re not your truly-held beliefs. Unfortunately modern conservatives have kicked Poe’s Law into overdrive, and if one leaves a comment like this one wihout a clear indication of sarcasm, people really have no choice but to assume they’re a bigot.

Too late, it sounds like he fuck-zoned her.

Seriously, those beers would have to be like 20% ABV to avoid freezing.

A bit different? Girl, you look like a whole other person! Femininity becomes you.

Pfft, everyone knows Santa lives in Canada. His postal code is H0H 0H0!

I don’t want to doubt your 80 year old friend, but I’m doubting your 80 year old friend.

I use they/them pronouns and work in the service industry. I’ve also worked with a few other trans people. That story is basically the opposite of how trans people act in public at their jobs, in my experience. We’ll only every really correct people who misgender us if they’re regulars and give off an OK vibe.

For me or anyone I know to call out a customer and tell them they’re being rude would require something really egregious.

If the story is at all true, I’d bet your friend called her “sir” or something when asking for the refill.

Your parents sound like shitty psychiatrists.

I spent so, so much time in trans subreddits, especially /r/egg_irl.

It took over two years of basically exclusively looking at trans memes, “to get a better understanding of the trans experience as an ally”, for me to start considering I might be trans!

I also recall a time near the beginning of that trans meme phase where I said to a friend “I think I’m probably non-binary”. He was like “what?” to which I answered “what?” and I just left it at that, not even a hint of introspection.

I copy-pasted the quote in a spoiler tag because scrolling through the in-line code markdown is an awful way to read text.

I scanned the whole page and I didn’t see this censorship you allude to, I did see a couple of uncensored “fucks” though.

You don’t need 5 posts a day for a community to survive here. There’s not that many people on Lemmy, things are a bit slower paced.

I mod !bicycles@lemmy.ca and we’d be lucky to have one post per day, yet I think it’s still a relatively healthy community, with a decent amount of engagement on most posts.

It’s a complete guide for beginners, they never claim to be a complete list of display managers.

I always enjoy talking to the elder gays, even though sometimes the men will be kinda inappropriate.

My favourite was this one old guy who came up to me while I was on a smoke break at work and immediately asked me “you’re trans, aren’t you?”

When I apprehensively said yes, he revealed he had transitioned in the late '80s! We had a nice little chat while I finished my smoke, he was really sweet and super proud of how comfortable the new generation of queers was being themselves. I definitely went into the bathroom to have a little happy cry afterwards.

Sure, if you zone in on the prefix, it definitely means two, but the word bisexual itself has been used to denote “attraction to more than one gender” for ages.

Do not assume that bisexuality is binary or duogamous in nature: that we have “two” sides or that we must be involved simultaneously with both genders to be fulfilled human beings. In fact, don’t assume that there are only two genders.

–Excerpt from the first edition of Anything That Moves, a bisexual magazine, initially published in 1991

I don’t have any specific recommendations for a stacking WM, but I doubt trying to force Hyprland into stacking would be your best option.

Based on your wants and a very quick search, I’d maybe check out Wayfire.

Do you know the song Chop Suey, by System of a Down?

Do you know the original name of that song, before the record company forced them to change it?

That’s what she’s referring to, I think.

He said that in 2007. Things have changed a lot since then, Debian is as easy to install as any other big distro (most of them, including Debian, use the Calamares installer nowadays)

This is the second post today I’ve seen from you about transphobic vegans. Personally, I’ve met way more queer vegans/vegetarians than transphobic ones, so I kinda question how much of an issue this really is.

For sure there’s a subsection of vegans, the more granola “everything must be natural” side, that can tend towards transphobia (ever heard of the woo-to-Q pipeline?) but I don’t think it’s nearly as common as your posts indicate.

I’m trans and vegan and to me it just seems disproportionate to equate a vegan organization that has issues with misgendering to fascist political figures actively attacking our rights.

I’ve never had to deal with this, but my take is that you shouldn’t feel bad for not offering up information, especially in a context where you don’t necessarily feel safe to do so.

I wouldn’t really consider this to be lying, either. Your bosses or coworkers don’t have a right to know you’re trans. Like, I don’t share my spiritual beliefs with anyone at work, for example. That doesn’t make me a liar. You’re entitled to your privacy, even more so when revealing something could be harmful for you.

Best of luck navigating this, it sounds like a rather tricky situation to be in.

I had to know the context for this so I looked it up, it’s from a marketing promo for the 1995 WWF WrestleMania arcade game. The whole video just screams 1990s.