They know we don’t have the infrastructure to support it.

Do you mean the power grid can’t support it? Or rather we dont’ have enough chargers?
Because if a car can get charged to full in less than 10 minutes, it wouldn’t cost much to install such chargers at your corner gas station.

I’d rather spend more for a brand I know will not only last many years, but also won’t explode or fold up like a card table if I get in an accident.

I’ll wait until Toyota copies this technology.