I know but then it’s so easy to give up, and even if you don’t, the next time something slightly disturbs the balance, such as it being Thursday, you need to achieve a monumental life changing effort again just to do the exact same thing you did for months…? And the crazy thing is that even experts on the subject don’t seem to understand going “it’ll get easier just keep at it” my sister in Christmas, I am fourty freaking years old I don’t think I’ll suddenly be able to not randomly forget brushing my teeth

Oh man machine language is so good, literally the best actually

No goes to Google gemini

You are the one that misjudged and dismissed me as if I am not allowed to exist unless I accept your choice of what I say and think?

How are the comments even removed? So you can change what I said? Redicilous.

I said very clearly “you are more than that” I gave you power. You are better than this.

And you chose to receive “they want me to not love myself”

It is your glasses. You interpret the world as judging you and look down on yourself compulsively. You have a victimisation complex and it is something you can do something about if you just stop deflecting any help and issuing a signal to yourself that it is okay to receive help and change.

Eventually, when you do this to people around you, you will create the exact nightmare you are looking for. Trust me. I have been there.

There is no reason to dismiss anything I think. You can choose to think otherwise. You don’t have to eject personality to accommodate what others think. You control what you think. I can think other things. It does not mean war. You don’t need to destroy others that think something else. You also might grow if you assume other viewpoints but that’s not step one. Step one is to take others critique in stride. Start by not assuming that it’s war with everyone. If it is, they don’t deserve your attention, but most people that you interact with will be interesting and interested.

And who will? You are crediting too much on the idiotic trend. Nobody has successfully used it

I don’t really understand, we are discussing if you want to be cured. And you do. No one has said it will destroy your character, except the people that has made these arguments for not curing themselves and they are just fundamentally not understanding how the diagnosis works

You don’t understand what it is and has made it your character instead of being yourself. It is not part of your character to have problems that disturb your daily life. A diagnosis comes when it is disturbing you. If you’re over it, you should not have a diagnosis.

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Adult diagnosed forty years person here. Basically this is my experience, can add to these excellent tips to provide yourself with a lagom, level headed amount of stimuli, you research what is correct for you, it may be jungle rain, iron works sounds, sped up techno with echo, but don’t be a problem and make it excessive or extravagant just use it for its purpose and don’t make it your identity to be eccentric, just find the frequencies that tune fork vibes your brain activates from and use it.

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Diagnosed 39. Absolutely like I would not want to remove my coping mechanisms and be free??? Wtf

I also get so insanely productive when I have something else to do. You’re on the right track. You do the minimum possible step towards what you want to do even how small it is just find something small enough that you can manage.

Yo

Idea

What if ALL the houses we build are for reducing homelessness?

At least think about it

What about them

No. If you need babysitting you have the wrong guy

You or anybody, even huge masses of people, have zero impact on the stick, zero point several hundreds of zeroes of impact. Even if all magahats invested at the exact same time. The institutions, mainly brokers, have full control of bundling all investments and settling outside of the market. What the stick does is what very wealthy hedgies decide it should.

Literally nothing gets better from not saying what the victory condition is the first thing you do

Even in my country and out in nowhere they have game shops now where you can just go and you will meet enthusiastic people that will be thrilled that you want.

I don’t follow? I have never said that to anyone. You seem lost, hope you get better

You think I don’t know but I have had a life full of that. It’s hard but it doesn’t matter if you realise they don’t mean that. They mean well. They mean “just” as a way to help. It’s useless to mark that. It’s helping no one to whine about that or to vent. It helps to realise it’s a wrong assumption of why they say “just”

Intentions are much more important than words

I am not wrong. Just old.