As a bisexual closeted trans person I feel this so much. I am finally starting to get involved in organisations of the leftist party in my country but I have been too scared to go to the committees for queer people since it feels like I would intrude as a straight seeming person.
At some point the buttons don’t get smaller and you can scroll them if they exceed the width of your screen. At least some browsers also give you tab groups so it stays a bit more organized.