I’m not sure that’s entirely true, my hips grew (and are still growing) even though I started at 20.

I heard that it got more complicated after 25 but anecdotaly some trans women have reported some hip bone growth after that.

Fat redistribution does the grunt of the work anyways…

I’m really tempted to go on DIY and it’s very reassuring to know it’s an option, I’m still scared of needles though, but I know that I can basically overcome most of my anxiety if it means relieving gender dysphoria.

I’m not in the US and injection are sadly not predcribed where I live, I am stockpiling my gel though, but I can’t get much more than what the pharmacy allows…

Welp, that’s terrifying. I’m planning to get an orchiectomy as soon as possible but it’s expensive (I’m a student) And the waiting lists can be a bit long.

Hopefully my estrogen supply never cuts off ;(

That’s so freaking cool i love it! <3

Yeah you can turn off the AI it’s not mandatory, besides, it’s really fast, has built in support for LSP’s , custom themes which are easy to make, vim mode out of the box, extensions, and some GitHub functionalities.

I was using Kate because electron is too much of a hog on my system and zed works insanely well (it’s slightly slower than Kate though but not very important)

I wish you could turn off the automatic downloads on zed though (or have a prompt to confirm the download) but it’s really shaping up to be a great text editor.

Thanks for your words, I often feel like looking like a woman is this unattainable goal, and I guess not reaching for it feels comforting if that makes sense?

I don’t let passing prevent me from living, I do basically what I want transition wise long hair, women’s clothing, perfume, you name it. but I really really really want to pass, because ultimately it would reflect what I really am on the inside. Now I feel torn like my soul is split between what I am and what people think I am.

I don’t know, I feel this sub is more of a happy place, I don’t want to ruin it, especially since positive trans spaces are hard to come by

I agree but if I go to the women’s bathroom I’d still immediately get kicked out :(

That won’t change for years until I get my maimed face fixed…

I haven’t gone on 4chan since the first few months of my transition, I just have to be real with myself at some point, I might never be treated like a woman in society because I might never look like one. I just don’t know how to cope…

Oh gosh I’m so sorry! I’m going to put a TW in the title.