that’s true! …what do I do with them once I have some?

Is that what that is? shiiiiittt…

I bet you could find some queer-owned small businesses to support. Obviously that’s still capitalism, but it’s better than nothing

I really ought to learn more about foraging

In my case I think it’s “AuDHD” 🤣

And I suspect that whether/how much I feel the need to mask plays a big factor.

So what if I both get energy from and am exhausted by people? I go crazy if I spend too much time alone AND too much time with people.

It’s like a crazy dysregulated roller coaster thing

MSG definitely is cheating, but that’s the point of cooking! You think I want to eat raw potatoes or something? Nah

but what if dandelions are valuable plants to me?

Thank you. I needed that reminder today.

I can’t either, it’s ok ❤️

o7

It’s because you aren’t on blahaj.

!diyhrt@lemmy.blahaj.zone

That should do it

!diyhrt

I get it. I feel that way about myself too.

But it can really help to make little changes in the right direction. It might not seem like much in the moment but they add up.

Also hrt helps. Like a lot.

Well then what’s stopping you from watching the shows you want or wearing what you want?

Girl it sounds like you need better people in your life ❤️

People shouldn’t tell you what to wear or who to be. They should take your self-disclosure at face value without gatekeeping or criticism. If the people who say they love you aren’t doing that, they aren’t treating you with the respect you deserve.

Yep 😅

Baby steps

I don’t see why not. If we had public golf courses, free for anyone to use, that were designed to minimize ecological harm, and incorporated other uses for the space (hiking trails, picnic tables, etc.) then I think it might actually be a really good use of land.

Also it’s an easier sell. Instead of telling people to stop doing something they like, you can encourage people to adopt healthier ways of engaging in their hobby.

Everyone hates on golf, but I suspect we could play golf - or at least a very similar sport - on less artifical terrain.

There’s literally a club for playing on sand, you’re telling me you can’t make a golf course out of clover or dandelions or whatever? I call bullshit.