Why do i relate to this? I wasn’t considered gifted or even smart till high school 🤔

I just appreciate the attention

It might be better to pursue it and eventually be honest with them. As you learn more about their flaws, they will stop being an unreachable figure, and start to become a person you understand. At the same time, you don’t need to hide your feelings as much (they might pick up on them, as like me, you probably suck at being sneaky). They’ll feel respected and understood, especially if you make it clear that you’ll accept a rejection.

That said, only try this if you can spend a lot of time with them. If you can’t see each other very often, it would be hard for even a super charismatic person to form a meaningful bond. If they give a rude rejection to someone being so honest and vulnerable, you deserved better. If they give a kind rejection, you can move on and might be able to stay as friends. All potential options are better than the alternative, so be brave!

This advice (that I have never tried) should be taken with a handful of salt. I just looked at what didn’t work for me in the past, and assumed my anxieties then were totally counter productive. If someone was obsessed with me, I’d want them to behave this way. I want others to show me respect as an equal person, not hate themselves while seeing me as perfect.

Doesn’t matter; you came out! ❤️‍🔥😱🥳☺️💖

Richard Dawkins when gender affirming care is one of the most successful mental health treatments to date, trans people display behavioral traits consistent with evolutionary theory, and people get fed up with his rigid thinking:

No, you shouldn’t. I was just feeling emotional and shared a meme I made a while back, but didn’t feel like posting at the time. You should allow yourself to get attached and break your heart, if only because you deserve to be loved ❤

All better!

That’s why I posted this yesterday, isn’t it?

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And they were all bottoms 😣

Frigging Brits and their inability to write proper English 🙄

Nya! (⁀ᗢ⁀)

Make it fun so your ND brain actually enjoys it. I voice trained by singing along to music while practicing individual elements of my voice. I did singing in a masc voice to improve my range, singing with feminine resonance at low pitches (took the longest), varying my pitch for emphasis instead of my volume, and trying to match female singers while pulling it all together.

I did eventually need to use Voice Tools to hear myself back, but by getting a grasp on everything through singing, that part was much easier. If I didn’t make it fun, I wouldn’t have gotten it done.

Once I felt confident enough, I switched to a fem voice full-time, as my brain needed to be trained to use that voice in social situations. Now I can’t even get myself to do a male passing voice in front of other people. I tried after only a month full-time and just couldn’t anymore 🥰

Probably waking up as dudes and enjoying things they couldn’t before with trans homies. Whatever those things are, they’re probably really nerdy

It’s only used tissues under there, I swear! 😫

And a skeleton under the desk, and a skull on the shelf in the 3rd. SYE includes this stuff in most of her drawings

Thanks, but I’m totally not Jessica don’t you know! >w<

It wasn’t working in the title

I suddenly want to avoid flannels 😣