One day while smoking with a friend someone placed a rock in my hand and It struck me like a vision.
I’d tried out a few names at that point and none of them felt like me, then the name I chose just popped into my head and i just kinda knew immediately in that moment. Told my friends later that day and 7 years later it feels weird to think my name was ever anything else.
In the 8 years I’ve been sexually active as a gay person, I’ve yet to find someone to top me that wasn’t actually just a bottom being nice.
I tried a couple differant names out at the same time just using differant names in different social groups I was in. None of them really felt right until one day a new name popped in my head and immediately felt right. Told everyone later that day that that would be my name. Thinking back now, it’s weird to think I was ever called anything else.
I might be the outlier here but I’m 8 years on hrt, prog and E, and have not had any surgeries. I have zero issue with erectile function.
My only change of note to my erectile function is sometimes, maybe 50% of the times I get hard, the second stimulation stops, I mean literally, count to 10 and I’m flaccid like I just climbed out of a cold pool. 30 -120 seconds of rubbing later and I’m hard as a rock again.