WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]

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Cake day: December 31st, 2023

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  • Transfems have a tendency to do that (myself included). There’s a few other shows I can think of where a character is somehow reincarnated into a girls body and are effectively made into transmasc characters, but its hard not to be jealous of them anyways despite their struggles with dysphoria that result from the sudden change. Granted, these are permanent reincarnations, not a temporary change, so temporary form changes map even worse to real life.

    I’m curious about the authors who write these stories. Are they transfem eggs who want to effectively be forced femmed but don’t want to admit it (hence the characters expressing negative emotions towards the changes), are they actually transmasc and just expressing their feelings via a character who was forcibly feminized? Do they just find gender bending to be an interesting topic philosophically. Ranma 1/2’s author seems to be a cis female. Tanya and Wild Last Boss are written under a pseudonyms and I think their authors are pretty much unknown.







  • If they’re just normal about their interest in a certain type but still saw me as a human worthy of basic respect rather than just a sex toy, I wouldn’t personally call them a chaser.

    Granted, I’m still early in my transition and don’t date (aroace), so I have limited experience with such and don’t have to to deal with partners who’d be disappointed if I did things like got bottom surgery, but would still be respectful about it. So my usage of the term may be different. But not sure if there are enough cis men in the world who are into gock are also respectful to make a meaningful differentiation from chasers.




  • Well, that’s probably only true for some people and only for a certain period after coming out to yourself.

    I’ve sorta experienced it long before I had any sort of egg cracking and it wasn’t even about the other person seeing me as a woman (so not misogyny) - I just felt that having such a experience made me better be able to relate to women and somehow for some reason that sorta compensated.

    Agreed that it probably falls off as you either become more self-confident or get more regular external affirmations that aren’t awful.




  • sadly it sometimes feels like you have to have a phd in biology and psychology just to justify your existence

    I gave up before I even came out based on how my mom treats other trans people, so I never mentioned pronouns and the like (not technically true - I did ask for my mom not to use one masc term in particular and said he female equivalent was fine months before coming out - of course she didn’t take it seriously since she assumed I was cis). Anyways, like 10 months after coming out and like 15 months after I had asked her not to use it, my parents suddenly were making an effort to avoid that one term (and some others). It’s because my brother talked to them without me and as far as I know probably just told them it bothered me and perhaps explained why I had not said anything. Unfortunately, people can’t just magically have a third party to represent them that aren’t seen as biased by transphobes.