This ignores the fact that men hold systemic power over us (as well as over cis women). While individual men aren’t inherently bad people, the power they have at their disposal just by being men (and the violence that power enables) means that to be a “good” man, you have to make an active effort to not uphold that power. Not a lot of men do this (though some do). Therefore, there’s reason to be distrustful of the average man we meet.
This ignores the fact that men hold systemic power over us (as well as over cis women). While individual men aren’t inherently bad people, the power they have at their disposal just by being men (and the violence that power enables) means that to be a “good” man, you have to make an active effort to not uphold that power. Not a lot of men do this (though some do). Therefore, there’s reason to be distrustful of the average man we meet.