Help help the zombie plague is here and it’s irresistible to get bitten

“Hey Bob, you uh, you seem to have grown some pretty big tits. You ok? It’s not infectious is it?”

Ok this is horrible and all, but also why is the attorney general basically the dictator of Texas? He keeps announcing wild stretches of laws with vicious punishment and for some reason nobody seems able to stop him

Just once I’d like one of these people subjected to what they put children through

I love it, it’s kinda a pain in the ass in some ways, but I really like what it adds to my boobs. They’re definitely an inconvenient piercing as they take long to heal and close up really fast.

And yeah they definitely add to the sexualization which can be a plus or minus. Like I don’t want my in laws to catch sight of it, even if I am a very “free the nipple” type. And it’s not like I hide my piercings when I’m topless in public, it’s a small enough change that I don’t see any difference in that context.

But yeah if you’ve planning on surgery you’ll want them to heal and to get some plastic jewelry for recovery. And speaking from personal experience, it was stupid as hell to get my nipples pierced 3 months after bottom surgery.

And yeah I’ve also generally shifted from baggy clothes over the past few years. In general I’m glad I got them pierced.

Because it makes the nipples more visible under shirts. When you’re wearing something baggy with subtle nipples it’s fine, but when they’re always prominent it’s less so.

Yep. Going braless can be a fashion statement outside work (very 90s), but it’s seen as pretty unprofessional to have visible nipples. It’s also generally something that less passing trans women (especially early in transition women) get way less social leeway on. That said, before I got mine pierced I typically went braless socially, but since then it’s just too visible to do outside the sort of contexts where it’s socially appropriate to flash my high beams.

Congrats on the tittage sister!

That sounds so nice. I’m currently in a wall of awful about trying to find a new adhd psychiatrist after changing insurance because I’ve been so mistreated by so many psychiatrists over the years.

And teachers. And authority figures in general. My favorite is when psychiatrists aren’t understanding of adhd behaviors

Idk I’m pretty sure that’s the trauma associated with growing up/living with adhd.

Also it’s not that I didn’t do anything wrong or forgot anything, it’s that I have no idea if I did. I could be sitting around having completely forgotten to pay rent until the landlord angrily calls.

They also kill themselves over the trauma from the camps regularly.

Yeah the shift to maintaining post transition name and pronouns when talking about pre translation selves is a relatively recent linguistic shift

Watch out with that comment about trans women having an unfair advantage in beauty pagents, it sounds like hyperbole, but Janice Raymond claimed basically that

Personally, yeah usually. A poorly written sapphic romance can hold my interest, but a straight one has to have me really caring about the characters or finding the romance relatable (Sanderson is really good for that) in order for me to not be wanting it to hurry up and get back to the good stuff.

Also every bit helps. I struggle to maintain full femme voice, but I went from extremely deep (ie would out anyone) to androgynous for the most part

You’re from Cleveland I see

Yeah it feels good in large part because we know how awful puberty can be. That being said, when I started hrt I did notice myself getting into stupid emotional fights with my mom (I lived at home at the time)

As someone who’s done it for fun and dated people who’ve done it for money. Yeah I stick to amateurs for a reason. It’s great to pay sex workers, but amateurs have a certain vibe. It’s one where I know you’re having fun because that’s the only reason you’re doing this

I’m an industrial engineer who was hanging out on lemmy and my IT guy was talking about his piracy server, and well I thought that a legitimately aquired media server might be nice, and that home assistant thing sounded cool so he gave me the form to get two used desktops for free from the company. And well now I’m still fucking around with them every once in a while in anticipation for when my space will warrant actually using them full time.

It also helps that my local bdsm community had had self hosters who talked about it for years.