You’re probably right that it wouldn’t stand out. The only comments I’d get would be ‘so, you’re having a mid life crisis huh.’ Something like that…

Ooo signet ring is a cool idea.

cis people are truly clueless

Lol. I think I’m starting to learn this.

It’s awesome you were able to explore your feminity so openly. I’m in the US south so there’s still a pretty low bar to being viewed as unacceptably feminine. Reading as gay is something I’d prefer to avoid just as much as being trans.

That being said, even with how bad things are getting I don’t think I’ve internalized how accepting most people are these days. Finding a more feminine style that works for me will take a while probably.

I want to wear it for myself, and not necessarily male coded jewelry but stuff I could wear without raising questions with friends or coworkers.

I’d love to have earrings. Also just random rings and bracelets. I love semi precious stones so probably stuff with a lot of that.

If not, feel free to rant away here.