The privacy conscious choice is to not use Plex at this point. It is only a matter of time before they start directly screwing with private library’s.

I use Joplin. They have a sync server you can host for yourself.

I use 2 matching Synology NAS systems. 1 backs up to the other daily. Then one of them backs up to Synology C2 weekly.

Not gonna lie, as a straight white man, I would watch a show called " Doctor Twink with his boyfriend fashion Lizard".