Shall I stay or shall I go now?

Wanting to quip, but answering very seriously as this is important. I go to the loo before, so if I need to pee during, it’s not normal and already an emergency.

Important:

When you’re trying out any kind of bondage, always make sure there’s someone around taking care in an emergency.

Read up on how to do bondage with quick release built in. (For example keeping medical scissors around to safely cut ropes)

There’s all kinds of stuff which rarely happens, but if it does there’s urgency. Medical problems, fires, everything else where you need to quickly vacate the room where you are in.

If you are bound someone needs to regularly check on you and keep in call for help distance.

In fact ropes are one of the really dangerous bdsm toys. Go to workshops where you learn how to use them safely.

(I had a wrist injuriy once due to badly applied ropes. Fortunately it healed after a few months and was just minor. But it was enough to make me scared and directly safeword out of the session when the ropes are not done safely on me)

That’s interesting. “I’m not into puppy play.” (Note the quotes)

What that really means I find it really hard to shut off the rest of my brain and focus on just “being” a dog. There’s at least a meta-commentary track running in my mind all the time.

Another commentator mentioned they needed pain or mind games along bondage, yes that’s what I didn’t mention - I also need some kind of sensory deprivation along (blindfold or so) and at best some noise canceling head phones with a very specific kind of music track that’s helps me lose any feelings for the passage of time.

So I’d like puppy play, if I could also “just arrive in the moment” there. I didn’t learn that, yet.

But this subdiscussion is diverging quite a bit from the original post. Still, I feel it’s still about the same state of mind.

I can’t do that on my own. No way. So I’m into BDSM and bondage.

Yes, bondage is just my way to be able to. meditate. (Ok, it’s being fixed in a decently comfortable position, having trust to who binds me, not being able to Houdini myself out and not knowing how long it takes)

It’s 90% relaxation and 10% sex.

I’m cleaning.

I’m turning on the tv to have some background noise while I clean.

Ah, it’s late, let’s go to bed after watching TV.

Why the fuck is there a bucket filled with water and cleaner on the way?

In elementary school my son would not memorize addition and multiplication and just use strategies like this.

That became a problem later on as we just can handle a finite number of intermediary results in our brain, so just memorizing the tables reduces a lot of mental load for calculation in your brain.

Another thing that helped him a lot was just writing down intermediaries on a piece of paper.

Btw it was a bit similar for me, I just got the table memorized perfectly and got faster doing simple calculations in my mind than using a calculator when I was training the multiplication and addition tables with my son.

Downvote because it’s a bad ADHD meme and for the goddamn motherfucking censored fuck.