As a cis het white guy it’s important for everyone here to know what I think:
Fatherhood, and my monogamous het partnership are the best things that’ve happened in my life.
“Traditional family values” (paternalism, misogynism etc) are toxic, and abusive. If your existence as a trans person helps undermine them, I celebrate you. If your existence as a trans person somehow reinforces those values I’ll still celebrate you (but I’ll be curious about how that’s happening).
You have allies.
Edit to add: the opening line was firmly tongue in cheek.
What unhealthy eating habit are you indulging in at 21:45?