

I think the disconnect is the word public. The article’s thesis is:
unashamedly sexual spaces are more important than ever.
My perspective as an outsider/ally: I agree that they are important, but think they are less important than at other times in history.
But again I think the disconnect is the word public: I don’t want to be sitting next to people having sex while on the bus. I don’t think that’s what the author is advocating for, so I just don’t think the word public is the right choice. I think they are advocating for public spaces accepting of sexual diversity, and separate communal places for individuals to have diverse kinds of sex.





What worked for me was taking my meds the same moment I put on deoderant. That way I can double check whether I took them by smelling my armpit before I leave the house.