

Make sure you wear sunscreen even if you’re a tans woman.
My name is Jess. I build and manage servers for both work and fun. I also occasionally make music.


Make sure you wear sunscreen even if you’re a tans woman.


Don’t podcasts and RSS still rely heavily on XML?
Yes, but having both in place can help mitigate lateral movement risk.


That intro/credits was incredibly cool, and so much better than the weird abstract one. That show probably would have been alright if it was just Season 3. Seasons 1-2 were just a sequence of various “nobody asked for this”.


Season 2 was so bad I burst out laughing multiple times during moments that were supposed to be serious.
The writing was so contrived and the backstories so tediously explainy it reminded me of fanfic I would write in middle school.
EDIT: And omg the whole Inception arc about his childhood abuse (but it wasn’t abuse, actually?!) was such a slog…


cisgender body dysphoria
Is that like a cis man wishing their penis was bigger?


For the dysphoria, I know it can feel crippling and make you want to give up. For some trans folk, it takes a lot of daily work to present how they feel. It can be really hard to want to keep it up when you feel like it’s still not enough. I’ve been there many times.
However, the best thing you can do to drive back the dysphoria (and depression in general) is to take those steps—put in the work and do the things that bring you euphoria. It may not get you to where you want to be, but it’ll get you a whole lot closer, and every little bit helps.
It might help to identify, specifically, what about your body/life is bringing you dysphoria. Start with small things. That way you can make some concrete goals to work on rather than the big nebulous cloud of “I look wrong and I don’t like it”.
Also, I don’t know your life, but I suspect there might be more contributing to your depression than dysphoria. It’s definitely worth some introspection to identify and work on those other areas of your life. ADHD especially often comes with a whole host of (treatable) struggles that make life in our society extra challenging.


How does it keep being news to people that everything on your work devices is visible to your employer?
If it is something that…


Gotta keep exercising that denial.


That video was… something…
Anyway I love Immich. It’s definitely been on a stable release for a bit, but I think they’re just trying to get the word out. A lot of people seem to think it’s still in alpha.
Personally, I’ve been running the same Immich server for years now, rolling all the way up to the current release and I’ve never had any data loss. I just had to read the patch notes and adjust my docker compose accordingly a couple times.
It’s well worth paying for that supporter badge, btw. I’ve easily gotten more than $100 value out of it.


If you go into self-hosting hating containers, you’re gonna have a bad time.


This seems like desktop applications with extra steps.


I love how surprised he gets when the culprit isn’t Quark.


Has a single thing in history that has ongoing cost actually fulfill a lifetime guarantee for say… 30 years or more?
These days 10 years before they rug pull is still a pretty good run.


Not sure if it’s still maintained, but there is still LCARSDE.


I’ve told so many people this was inevitable and they all said I was being dramatic.
You’re, right, I misread the post.
At that point DNS is handled by whatever network you’re on. Since that not always under your control, hosting a private VPN (and setting DNS though that) is the way to go.
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