For 2. I feel also like arriving with shields up and then bringing them down is a strong message too, when communicating peaceful intent. Familiar races would also come to recognize that this is how starfleet does things and not consider the default aggressive.

I wonder how this can be such a universal experience…? When people turn on the lights on the back seat it barely bothers me, even in pitch black darkness.

Ah, the gentleman’s fuck around and find out.

I think Picard is no stranger to speaking softly and carrying a big stick

Except with the borg.

I love these stories, they make me happy.

You encountered a situation most would consider an inconvenience but which to you represents an external confirmation of your identity instead.

I guess you need a new passport though…

I was even more surprised when I found out Lwaxana and the enterprise computer had the same actress.