So when I told my mum about me I wanted it to be a little of an ice-breaker for her to brainstorm a new one with me. I had some ‘soft’ requirements - appropriate for my age, something I could shorten and greek-ish (deadname and my sister’s names both are, not like we have any familial link or anything). I’m the eldest of 2 and for years we have known her name had she been a boy but for some reason we both thought my other name was what she got called. Turns out it wasnt true and my mum said “oh no you were going to be called x”. And when I heard it I realised it fulfilled all my requirements, kinda suited me and it just felt nice, like it was mine to reclaim.
So when I told my mum about me I wanted it to be a little of an ice-breaker for her to brainstorm a new one with me. I had some ‘soft’ requirements - appropriate for my age, something I could shorten and greek-ish (deadname and my sister’s names both are, not like we have any familial link or anything). I’m the eldest of 2 and for years we have known her name had she been a boy but for some reason we both thought my other name was what she got called. Turns out it wasnt true and my mum said “oh no you were going to be called x”. And when I heard it I realised it fulfilled all my requirements, kinda suited me and it just felt nice, like it was mine to reclaim.
(Btw, username unrelated lol)