Diva (she/her)

accidentally waste their time making mean comments that I can’t see

making comments people don’t see or acknowledge is one of my favorite pastimes

that external opinion is usually either bigotry or supporting US empire from my experience. Other Lemmy spaces are just as likely to ban for wrongthink ie: not being pro genocide or whatever war libs are supporting this time.

hexbear is heavily transfem and bans aggressively for misogyny/transphobia. Spending some time there when their recent domain crisis defederated from the rest of Lemmy was actually quite relaxing

for me I couldn’t even recognize my face. I hated the shaving so much -both the touching my face and the feeling of stubble on my skin as it grew back I just opted to just let it all grow for years before realizing how much I just wanted it gone. Some portion of that was personal neglect, also just being busy working for years and burying my disphoria under that and supporting my partner. I told myself it wasn’t a good time for it and waited way longer than I should have but at least I didn’t have to get sectioned.

I tested first by shaving for the first time in years and looking at my face not covered in hair made me start crying from joy right then and there. So I went and spent many, many hours getting electrolysis done because the pain from that is pretty much insignificant compared to how waking up to hairs growing out of my face made me feel.

I will say if they’re skilled you shouldn’t feel the insertions, they will tune the settings to your pain threshold, I often doze off while getting mine 😅

Beware the fake communism, “tankie” triad of hexbear.net (or wherever they moved to, after they forgot to renew their own domain name)

they managed to keep the domain in the end, I think they transferred to a different DNS landlord

Also it’s not fake communism, it’s pretty normal for anyone outside of terminally online circles, like I’m active in anarchist organizing and I’ve had plenty of comrades who would get called a tankie by you lot like it’s some thoughtcrime

jeopardy music

and fuck any other Right-wing leader/political party around the world

don’t forget, fuck the Democrats and Joe Biden

hexbear.net defederated due to domain ownership issues, since resolved. sounds like they’re aiming to be refederated by the end of the month.

oh they’re going to be refederated soon, like by the end of the month

yes, we get it, you’re extremely edgy

They’re actually mostly anarchists/communists, so left wing

I haven’t heard that one before, hallucinating again?

You do seem more obsessed with people to your left than anyone to your right, not really beating the crypto fascist allegations

Some instances just have higher standards than you and don’t tolerate ableist insults

hey mister, sorry you have such a hard time with the concept that other people have standards

it was probably also that they felt the need to say "even dumber than those North Koreans’

with higbrow humor like that and ‘Drump’ you really are the John Oliver of lemmy

okay racist/chavinist or ableist you’re right I forgot one

hexbear.net lost their domain briefly, and defederated as a precaution while it was sorted out

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you’re not going to get banned for saying that, I would even agree. people get banned for being racist/chauvinist and then run off to cry about evil authoritarian censorship