Digital artist who infrequently can scrape enough energy to create stuff. I like to escape with art and draw cute anthros.

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Cake day: June 20th, 2023

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  • Welcome to Furry_IRL! Please note that as an IRL community; we request the post title be a word, followed by “_irl.” The artist credit after is fine and encouraged, so thanks for that, and including detailed sources in the post body!

    You posted two things that do this. Please edit the post titles, I appreciate it!


  • Foxfire@pawb.socialMtofurry_irl@pawb.socialfediverse_irl
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    5 days ago

    First off, furry_irl is a place for posting memes and other relatable images, not a general community to ask questions. I’m removing this, but I recommend reposting it in furry.

    I don’t really know of more furry peertube instances, I mostly know of furry mastodon instances, though those are already well federated with our own instance of pawb.fun. Following the #furry and #furryart tags will help a lot if you aren’t already.









  • All depends on the situation you’re in, though people generally end up needing to work all those hours to survive basically. If you have the privilege to work fewer hours and enjoy your life more, it makes perfect sense you’d want to do so. It is inherently an exploitative system, though it’s more than just the raw number of hours worked too. Personally, part time wasn’t much better than full time for me, because I’d just be scheduled all over the place to patch gaps for full-timers, so I never had any routine consistency. Regardless, I hope things work out for you if you get that position.


  • Foxfire@pawb.socialOPMtofurry_irl@pawb.socialSorry_irl (OC)
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    1 month ago

    Yeah, that’s pretty much it. It’s easy to fall into the gamification of social media and push yourself in harmful ways. While this comic is exaggeration and obviously doesn’t reflect how every person who says this feels, it’s really just a way to have a dialogue about why someone apologizes for not doing some personal thing enough. It’s not like I’m “immune to propaganda” either here, as I’m also a people pleaser; it’s something I have to actively contend with because of my upbringing. Art is just one of those things I’ve managed to put my foot down over because of what it means to me.

    As for the hobby to job thing, I feel a good life lesson would be to never go down that path if possible. You don’t get a hobby that is a job, you simply lose a hobby and gain a job. I know this world is disgusting and some may see this their best way to survive in capitalist hell, but that just makes the journey sadder. This is also why when I encounter hobbyists with ways to pay them, I just donate instead of commission. They already gave me joy with their expression, after all.


  • Foxfire@pawb.socialOPMtofurry_irl@pawb.socialSorry_irl (OC)
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    1 month ago

    Yeah, it’s almost certainly an over exaggeration of what’s actually happening. More than anything I just wanted to dramatize how I read those comments, so I could spark discussion about how social media can make people feel like they have to do things, just because they’ve done them before. Take breaks, create when you want to, enjoy your hobbies.

    Also, thanks! Don’t know when the next one will be, but I’ll be happy when I’m making it, and I’m grateful others like you are willing to experience it with me.


  • Foxfire@pawb.socialOPMtofurry_irl@pawb.socialSorry_irl (OC)
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    1 month ago

    Perhaps we view the word “owe” differently, because by the sounds of it, you just want people to have empathy for other’s needs. In my view, sharing your self expression through art, and those who take the time to partake in that expression, are already engaged in a mutually positive experience together. When I used “owe,” I mean a position of entitlement. In the same way I cannot feel entitled to other’s attention, they should not be entitled to my expression. My expression is my freedom, and I will not sacrifice the small sliver of that I have.

    Your point of doing well by others as you can is absolutely valid of course, and we all can be a part of that. Sharing emotions, stories, kind words, experiences, even a moment of time to listen. I suppose the only thing we likely differ on is how the word “owe” makes us feel. We’re all in this together, and I’d love if we all felt encouraged to spread positivity, without feeling awful because you feel what you do is not enough.



  • Foxfire@pawb.socialMtofurry_irl@pawb.socialSpeeding_irl
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    1 month ago

    Welcome to furry_irl! I’m no cheetah, so you’ve got a little time to please make these changes:

    1. Post titles need to be a word, followed by _irl (e.g. Speeding_irl). Please edit the post title.
    2. Credit the artist in the title or post body. Someone kindly posted the artist (Cerberus) in a comment already, so that should be no sweat.

    Thank you!