“Culture war” really implies it’s two sided, it’s really nore of a culture invasion. An attempted culture cleansing? Kind of like ukraine and russia
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This was a lesson I wished I had learned sooner in my journey. I was so caught up in whether or not I was really trans and valid etc. and you don’t have to go through all that, deciding it’s what you want makes you valid. Cis people don’t decide they want to be another gender.
Varies from person to person. In general I wouldn’t worry about it too much, the way those are used is pretty gender neutral in general even though they can contextually be male. If you know you’re addressing a trans gal maybe make more of an effort for folks but I wouldn’t worry about it too much. If someone tells you it bothers them, then ya know, try not to. In general the litmus test for me is would it be a problem if they were cis? If not, then not a problem by default (if it bothers them, it’s an exception to account for)
Overall, I think it’s silly to be concerned over the use of guys and dudes instead of the tendency to treat everyone on the Internet as male.
The fact you want to be considerate puts you far ahead of the crowd!
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Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Quick question about HRT and sexual orientation.English
3·19 days agoI’m assuming you meant partner instead of parents hahahaha
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Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
1·21 days agoNeat, TIL
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Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
2·22 days agoMostly just watched a bunch of coffeezilla
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Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
13·22 days agoOk
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Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
4·22 days agoThanks
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Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
331·22 days agoLol I’ve literally only seen it used as an excuse to ban people calling out rug pulls
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Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
562·22 days agoFUD
Crypto bro detected
Imagine being wanted
I’m not hard on myself because I think it’ll make me better, I’m hard on myself because I’m a failure of human being and I can’t always avoid thinking about it
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Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•What body changes would y'all want in a trans humanist sci-fi future?English
8·2 months agoGive me modular arms and legs. Having someone be able to pop my limbs off as part of a power dynamic would be amazing, and it would be really cool to decide how tall I wanted to be that day.
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Fediverse@lemmy.world•Microsoft doesn't understand the FediverseEnglish
2·3 months agoMrrrrp :3
Brand name ones still work like this pretty much, they’re pretty bad
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Plushies@lemmy.blahaj.zone•[Fox calendar 5/2025] At the playgroundEnglish
2·4 months agoWhere can I find your calendars?
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egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg_irlEnglish
21·4 months agoWhat does this have to do with egg_irl
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Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•it's hard out here for transmascsEnglish
13·4 months agoLmao I’ve almost done this with my friends
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furry_irl@pawb.social•Caltrops_irl (Art by YuumiSoCute)English
3·4 months agoIf you know, you know



It’s not yuri, wish it was though