Give me modular arms and legs. Having someone be able to pop my limbs off as part of a power dynamic would be amazing, and it would be really cool to decide how tall I wanted to be that day.

Mrrrrp :3

Brand name ones still work like this pretty much, they’re pretty bad

Where can I find your calendars?

What does this have to do with egg_irl

Lmao I’ve almost done this with my friends

If you know, you know

Ok

Oh I know people do, I just don’t know how

Not saying people shouldn’t be posting stuff like this, I wish I could enjoy it too =/

I honestly don’t understand how anyone can enjoy hollow platitude posting

Why isn’t this loss

One tight enough around someone’s balls definitely will =D

Idgaf what it is just hand me that fluffy friendly happy animal to hug

I think I know why authoritarian has different connotations, specifically not inherently negative to me–stellaris! When setting up your civilization in stellaris, there are several… factors? you can base them on, each one has an opposite. Materialist vs spiritualist, militarist vs pacifist, xenophobe vs xenophile, and authoritarian vs egalitarian. I’m used to the word in the context of a descriptive spectrum, not inherently good or bad. (Usually bad in the context of irl stuff, that just doesn’t seem to be where my mind goes first) Just thought you might find it neat

Mood, we’re on the same page the word authoritarian just has a bit different meaning to me

See my comment here

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/26961264/14719771

I’m sick of respectful debates about my right to exist. That’s what blahaj zone is for, and it does it well.

Yep exactly pretty much

Sure. Transphobia is straight up not tolerated at all. There is zero room for discussion. It’s not something a community on bz can allow, it’s ada’s mission statement that bz is a safe space for trans people, end of story. That’s why I love it and use it. I wouldn’t call it censorship heavy, at least not in the aame way ml and the like are. You can criticize and bitch about ada and her actions as much as you want, you won’t get silenced. However, I’d still absolutely place it on the authoritarian end of the spectrum compared to a place like dbzero. I call it authoritarian but it’s not a negative thing, it’s why I use it. It’s it done right. Idk maybe I have different connotations for the instance and for the word authoritarian than you/most people, I hope this clears up what I mean

Lemmy.world – biggest, defaultest instance. All the pros and cons associated with that

Lemmy.ml – very authoritarian leftist instance. Has a tankie problem but also has cool communists. Has heavy censorship

Lemmy.blahaj.zone – trans focused, very queer, authoritarian by nature of being a trans safe space. Generally chiller but contradictorily also the center of a lot of drama, because people love to hate trans safe apaces.

dbzero – don’t remember the actual domain, run by dbZ. Anarchist democracy instance, very cool and chill, it’s what I’d sign up on if I started afresh

sh.itjust.works – tbh don’t know much about them but pretty straightforward, is what the label aays, it just works

Hexbear – wver wanted to see a aerver that unironically loves the chinese communist party and thinks north korea is aspirational? There you go

pawb.social – I think this might be am mbin instance instead of a lemmy instance but I’m not sure. Can be summarized as " the furry one"

lemmynsfw – the porn one. Most instances are defederated feom it

Those are the ones foremost in my mind. Tons of small European ones that are focused on specific countries too. I anticipate replies giving me shit for uttering the word “tankie”.

It’s been a real weird time realizing what I thought was attraction was envy and I’m actually demi. Love being penetrated and servicing but don’t find people physically attractive at all. Made it real strange discovering I like sex with men. Only ever realized I was demi because I have some ace and demi friends and I was talking about my experiences with hookups and had a moment where a friend said “.…pixeltree, are you ace? That sounded really ace” and I’m like shit goddamnit here we fucking go again with the goddamn introspection