That seems like advice on appearance, not depression, which like still kinda eh but not “just feel better duh”
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pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Trans Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•bros can't help themselves 🙄English
82·14 days agoNo I’m transitioning into my mom
Real talk though that was something I had to work through. Accepting that to the majority of people I’m going to look strange/odd/offputting and realizing that that’s really not what’s important. As long as I like what I look like, it doesn’t matter what others think.
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Yuri memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•is _Dungeon Meshi_ actually yuri, or are these two just a common ship?English
2·18 days agoIt’s not yuri, wish it was though
“Culture war” really implies it’s two sided, it’s really nore of a culture invasion. An attempted culture cleansing? Kind of like ukraine and russia
This was a lesson I wished I had learned sooner in my journey. I was so caught up in whether or not I was really trans and valid etc. and you don’t have to go through all that, deciding it’s what you want makes you valid. Cis people don’t decide they want to be another gender.
Varies from person to person. In general I wouldn’t worry about it too much, the way those are used is pretty gender neutral in general even though they can contextually be male. If you know you’re addressing a trans gal maybe make more of an effort for folks but I wouldn’t worry about it too much. If someone tells you it bothers them, then ya know, try not to. In general the litmus test for me is would it be a problem if they were cis? If not, then not a problem by default (if it bothers them, it’s an exception to account for)
Overall, I think it’s silly to be concerned over the use of guys and dudes instead of the tendency to treat everyone on the Internet as male.
The fact you want to be considerate puts you far ahead of the crowd!
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Quick question about HRT and sexual orientation.English
3·1 month agoI’m assuming you meant partner instead of parents hahahaha
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
1·1 month agoNeat, TIL
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
2·1 month agoMostly just watched a bunch of coffeezilla
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
13·1 month agoOk
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
4·1 month agoThanks
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
331·1 month agoLol I’ve literally only seen it used as an excuse to ban people calling out rug pulls
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Programmer Humor@programming.dev•Well, hello waterfox and librewolfEnglish
562·1 month agoFUD
Crypto bro detected
Imagine being wanted
I’m not hard on myself because I think it’ll make me better, I’m hard on myself because I’m a failure of human being and I can’t always avoid thinking about it
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•What body changes would y'all want in a trans humanist sci-fi future?English
8·3 months agoGive me modular arms and legs. Having someone be able to pop my limbs off as part of a power dynamic would be amazing, and it would be really cool to decide how tall I wanted to be that day.
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Fediverse@lemmy.world•Microsoft doesn't understand the FediverseEnglish
2·3 months agoMrrrrp :3
Brand name ones still work like this pretty much, they’re pretty bad
pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Plushies@lemmy.blahaj.zone•[Fox calendar 5/2025] At the playgroundEnglish
2·4 months agoWhere can I find your calendars?


I don’t, I just drown them with stimulation and then implode when I have to fall asleep