Depends on the person but for me it helped to tackle one thing at a time. Voice training was free so I just kinda worked on that while figuring out plans for other stuff.

Idk where I fit in regards to butch/femme. I vary in my presentation based on my mood. High femme is simply too much work and impractical. It’s not that I don’t admire it when someone else does it, but I’ve tried out make up and such and it’s really not my thing.

I’ve had long hair for a while and it was fun getting to do that and stuff but it’s too long now and difficult to care for. I want to try a shorter cut again but I’m worried about being misgendered due to my size.

I like skirts. They fit my hips better and for day to day wear are really practical. I worry that makes me not butch enough.

In terms of household work I fill all of the gendered roles. I do the cooking and cleaning, the finances, fix stuff, am the sole breadwinner etc. I sometimes joke that I’m both the dad and the mom of the house. I wish my partner would do more things for herself. I don’t like filling these roles.

oops thanks for catching that.

You might look at laikoski on YouTube for ideas https://m.youtube.com/@Laikoskiofficial

His stuff does tend to be horny but IMO his character designs aren’t really sexualized.

I would say horny is less insistent than it used to be before estrogen. Not sure what the light/ floating bum feeling is about tho. People I have crushes on do feel nice to have them call me endearing terms. I would say I’m sort of at the mid point in comparison to the range of horny I’ve seen expressed by trans fem people on estrogen.

probably the closest one for me is literal cat but also I am not a girl, I’m a dragon and also not a cat.

computer equivalent of being a nudist

Nothing about continuous integration prevents you from using a branch to prepare your changes.

can’t believe in yourself? then believe in the kamina who believes in you!

git branches are free
work in your tree
til the changes are ready
300 git push --force-with-lease a day and nobody mad

thanks it’s a fairly recent development

From my perspective, it comes down to what you like and enjoy being. If gender fluid is what you like and enjoy then it’s that. If boy/man/masc is the thing you enjoy than it’s that.

Do laundry every week

Mwah

Speaking of which

:3

Here to wreck havock

Can we just fucking collapse already this doom is ever imminent thing is too much for me.

wish right wingers would do this instead of forcing their lifestyle on everyone.

Why does non binary appear twice?