• cows_are_underrated@feddit.org
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    1 day ago

    Im quite sure I dont have ADHD, and I can absolutely relate. When I finally wrote my last exam of my highschool everyone was kinda hyped afterwards and I was like “and now? That’s it?”

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      1 day ago

      I was quite sure I didn’t have ADHD, too.

      Not feeling a sense of accomplishment is not normal. You deserve better. Just check into it, okay?

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      1 day ago

      I’m no brainologist but I wonder if things like this might be more related to autistic cognition. There seems to be something similar in the space of not attaching the same significance to events others find emotionally charged.

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        Nah this is purely a malfunction in the rewards and punishment functions of the brain that keeps you motivated. Autistic people don’t have any problem with motivation unless they have some other diagnosis. If there is a connection, it would be with something like depression or RADS.

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          6 hours ago

          ADHD and ASD go hand in hand. Not all ASD people have ADHD, but if someone’s on the spectrum, ADHD might want to be looked at if they’re having issues that are similar.

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          eh, kind of hit or miss with autistic people, afaik.

          hyperfocus is a big thing for autists, which is a problem with attention, since it keeps you from choosing what you want to focus on.

          so if you’ve got an assignment due, and your brain decides we’re gonna focus on [different thing] right now, possibly for days on end, that can be a serious problem.

          it can also look basically identical to ADHD for outside observers, since the result is often the same “they didn’t to [the thing]!”…

          and that then gets mistaken for a lack of motivation, which it isn’t really:

          it’s a lack of ability to choose what to be motivated about.

          it’s one of the reasons that there’s so much overlap in diagnosis of ADHD and ASD: symptoms can present very similarly to outside observers

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            4 hours ago

            No, I have both and I can tell you for sure that the hyperfocus from my autism and the hyperfocus from the ADHD are very different experiences. The ADHD hyperfocus feels more like addiction, in a sense, since it feels like I sink into the bullshit task like mud and I can’t pull myself back out without help. And it’s never actually helpful. The autism hyperfocus I can sometimes engage on purpose, and it’s more related to my enthusiasm for the task.

            The thing that autistic people have that I think can be mistaken for adhd is the difficulty in switching tasks without warning. This must be a new thing, tbh. When I was a kid, I got called the r word a lot for not being able to switch tasks as fast as the people I was with. This isn’t focus, it’s an aversion to the inconvenience of being unable to complete a task.

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              2 hours ago

              I’ve also got both, kinda; no hyperactivity just the attention deficit…

              and yeah, i agree: that’s why I said it can look the same to an outside observer, not that it feels or works the same.

              the term I’ve heard for the task switching problem you describe is “autistic inertia”; basically just means that it’s more difficult to start a task, and end a task (or switching to a new task), but once a task is underway there isn’t an issue. it’s just the starting/stopping part that’s hard…

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            6 hours ago

            That’s a nice explanation, I’m ASD and wife is ADHD and it makes sense in our case. I just used my son as an excuse for underperforming at work because instead of programming whatever I was programming a different thing.