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I (f) have struggled a lot to figure out the ace portion of my sexuality. I’m definitely deeply in that spectrum, borderline sex repulsed. I don’t think I’ve ever had “good” sex (whatever that means) so make of that what you will. My partner and I are deeply committed, but I’ve never felt an urge to do anything sexual with her. Not into men in the slightest.

I blame my ADHD in large part. Even when I’m alone, I get bored and distracted easily. The physical sensations are there but they don’t create happy brain chemicals. It’s honestly frustrating beyond belief.

The only people saying that are pedants who maybe passed a python crash course. In industry no one gives a shit.

Edit: except that engineer is a protected term in some countries

Not everyone’s brain works like that. My girlfriend, for one. She struggles to make those arbitrary abstract jumps