Maybe it shouldn’t be a thing? Trans Lemmy is so small that I think if anyone is subscribed to one, they’re prolly subscribed to the other, which means seeing the same post back to back?
Should /c/mtf be non-selfie, because the entire point of /c/trans_joy is showcasing happy trans people?
Or am I up my own butt about this?
In my opinion, yes. There are exceptions of course since the different groups may require highlighting different aspects, but in general, yes.