• Fawkes@lemmy.zip
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    9 days ago

    Are you saying that nobody should be allowed to have a relationship with Ocampa, since their biology causes them to die of old age at 9 years old? Separate but equal?

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      9 days ago

      It’s insane how many people aren’t able to accept that different SPECIES may have entirely different cultural norms. Not just ST fans, I see it a lot in SF&F

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        8 days ago

        On the other hand, it’s all fiction written by humans for humans through the lens of human culture. It’s really easy to not write fiction about “technically not pedophilia”.

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          8 days ago

          Any species with a short lifespan is off limits, by your logic.

          through the lens of human culture.

          This is dumb, any good alien story is about seeing the universe through the lens of a different culture.

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            Any species with a short lifespan is off limits, by your logic.

            Kinda, yeah. “You’re really mature for your age” is fucking creepy.

            any good alien story is about seeing the universe through the lens of a different culture.

            That’s not happening in a vacuum though. It is “different” specifically because of the comparisons to human cultures. There’s this concept in science fiction called “cognitive estrangement”, basically you use something novel to cast new light on the familiar. The alien culture becomes a fresh perspective on your own experience.

            There’s room for things that are truly bizarre and unrelatable but done correctly it’s going to feel weird and unsettling. Cosmic horror type stuff.

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      I’d didnt say they shouldn’t be allowed nor that they shouldn’t want to. I am just saying that, assuming most intelligent races have something against pedophilia, intimate relationships with someone under the age of 10 would probably feel weird.

      It reminds me a little of that Anime trope of the 1000 year old witch in the body of an 8 year old.

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        I agree with the anime trope part, but that only complicates your position.

        Is it strange because the anime girl is physically young? Then there’s no issue with Kes.

        Is it strange that she’s psychologically immature? Then there’s an issue with dating ANYBODY that is immature or sheltered, which is a much more difficult metric to gauge and standard to set.

        Or is it an issue with her chronological age? Then nobody is ever allowed to have interspecies relationships, unless their aging speed matches.